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Thursday, October 23, 2003

All day long...

Not much to do. Looked at a ton of blogs today.

Couldnt have been much less active if I'd stayed home in bed.

Tonight I get to go home, see the baby and call the girls. Sunday at 8am I have a meeting with the X, we'll see how it goes and what the hell she wants. But thats not until Sunday. Until then, its all me and the wife.

Sorry all... vent time...
Have you ever wondered why something happened or turned out as it has? So have I. But with my divorce, I give up. I just figure that the X is a sadistic bitch. All I see is her wanting more... more money. In April she put the girls in daycare so she could work. From when we talked then, I wrote down that she 'agreed' to pay the sitter $75 a week. She didnt ask me to help her pay for it - though it is in the decree. She did want me to help pay for the $600 a month (my share) until she was able to find the $75 a week lady. Now, 24 weeks later she meets with me and hands me a bill -

24 weeks x $75 = $1800

She then proceeds to tell me that her mom's been watching the kids and she 'agreed' to pay her $150 a week and she can show me the cancelled checks if I want. Well, now that she asked, I'll pay her mom the $300 a month (my share) for their daycare. But, WTF am I supposed to do about the $1800???? Christ! I could have sworn that the decree said 'Joint Decision Making'... why wasnt I asked?

And this was a damn fine meeting too. She doesnt negotiate at all. Its all 'you pissed me off and now I'm going to fuck with you'. What pissed her off? Lets see, I had the kids for the 4th of July on 2001 and then I demaded them this year also. She said I had them last year and took them to see fireworks - I didnt, I worked the 4th and there were no fireworks due to the drought/fireban - so she asked if she could have them half of the 4th and I told her no. All because I told her no...

Okay, so that was 2 weeks ago this coming Sunday. The day after that meeting - wich lasted an hour and a half - she sends me an IM to my phone saying she still has more to talk to me about. Hence the meeting this Sunday. Who the hell knows what she wants to talk about. When I called her on the phone, she said that she has more things to talk to me about that were on her list that she didnt get to.

Why do I allow myself get upset about/over her? Damn, two weeks and I'm still fuming.

posted by Glenn H at 10/23/2003 02:29:00 PM

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